Few of us had heard the phrase “social distancing” at the beginning of the year. But now,
maintaining safe, hygienic spaces that help limit the spread of the coronavirus is just a part of our
Here are 5 ideas on how to make social distancing a little less isolating.
1. Set a schedule.
We advise all our newly retired clients to set a schedule that will give retirement a little bit of
structure. Doing so keeps new retirees active and engaged as they explore new ways to fill time
without their 9 to 5s.
It also helps keep retired spouses from driving each other crazy!
Whether you’re retired or not, you’re going to need to rethink how you spend your days for the
foreseeable future, especially if you’re working from home or still have kids in the house who
need help with school.
If you’re struggling to work out a schedule, we can walk you through some of our Retirement
Coaching exercises to help you and your family see and plan a productive week.
2. Get outside!
So far the government hasn’t put restrictions on getting some fresh air. Sitting in the backyard,
firing up the grill, or throwing a ball around can help you and any family you’re isolated with get
the blood pumping and feel a little more normal.
Depending on social distancing guidelines in your community, you’re probably allowed to walk,
jog, or bike through your neighborhood or a park as well. Just remember to keep a six-foot buffer
between you and other folks and avoid touching surfaces like fences and playgrounds.
Another idea: porch parties! Some folks are setting up chairs on their porch to say
hi – or shout hi – to neighbors without getting within six feet of each other.
Remember, the coronavirus situation is different state to state and even town to town. Check
with your local health department for the latest social distancing guidelines.
3. Enjoy some facetime on FaceTime
Services like FaceTime, Zoom, Skype, and GotoMeeting can host group video chats. Many folks
have started hosting weekly “fam jams” to connect with friends and family across the country.
Your group can even use these services to play games, watch movies, or listen to music together.
As you’re working on a new routine, consider scheduling your own weekly “fam jam.” And if
you have older friends and family members who live alone, use whatever tech they’re
comfortable with to check in as often as you can. Social distancing is going to be especially hard
on folks who might feel isolated to begin with.
4. Learn from the best.
Yes, it’s important to stay informed. But if you spend too much of your day glued to anxious
social media and news feeds, you’re just going to get more anxious yourself.
Instead, click or swipe over to some of the remarkable ways that folks are connecting, educating,
and entertaining online. Many libraries, magazines, museums, and news organizations have lifted
their digital paywalls. Artists are offering free online instruction in painting and drawing. Gyms
and yoga studios are organizing online exercise groups. Musicians are performing online
concerts. World-famous chefs are offering cooking classes. Actors and actresses are reading
animated books to children.
These might not be ideal circumstances, but with so many big-hearted pros sharing their skills
online, for free, this is a great time to explore a new hobby or dig a little deeper into a topic that
5. Perform random acts of kindness.
There’s power in putting goodwill out into the world. And right now, we could all use some!
In your own home, something as simple as cooking a nice meal for your stressed-out spouse or
performing a chore that’s not usually on your to-do list could go a long way toward keeping
things upbeat. You might even decide to tackle a cleaning, painting, or reorganizing project
together that will freshen up your home.
As for the loved ones you aren’t isolated with, think of little ways to show you care. Commit to
those weekly “fam jam” calls. Mail a pie from your local bakery. Send a greeting card or
handwritten letter. Check in on your neighbors, especially the elderly or infirmed, and see if
there’s anything you can do to help without breaching safe social distancing.
Your community could benefit from some kindness as well. Small businesses, restaurants, and
artists are really hurting right now. Buying gift cards, merchandise, and to-go meals can help
these businesses stay operational and keep a few more people working. If you’re a Sunday
newspaper reader, consider subscribing daily to support the folks who are getting you vital
information. That singer you saw in your local café can’t perform live right now, but she
probably has an album you can buy online.
For our part, we plan to keep our usual channels of communication wide open. We’ll keep in
touch with emails, blog posts, webinars, and phone calls to share information that we hope helps you cope
with social distancing and the other challenges of the coronavirus pandemic. And if there’s any
questions you need answered please don’t hesitate to get in touch with us.